Weird ass men

So I really don’t know what to say about the state of men anymore. To many of us women, we have come to the conclusion that men have lost the art of being gentlemen.

They will say all kinds of mean and nasty things to you, of course behind their phone or computer screens. They ghost you, they won’t even buy you a cup of coffee on a date and….they send dick pics for no apparent reason but their own over bloated egos. Wtf?

Yes, the world has changed in the last 20 years that’s for sure. Now to some of you who will come for me whining “What about women?” 

I don’t know, I’ve never dated a woman but if I ever decide to, I will definitely write about them and how they act as well. In the meantime, this is the subject I know.

The other night a man who follows me on Instagram hits me up in my DMs. We chat for a bit then he video calls me. I pick up and I say hi, he then hangs up on me. 

I text him Hey I think we have a bad connection, you wanna call me back?

He replies I’m driving. I just wanted to see if you were real.  

I’m thinking to myself, well you saw that I was real and you didn’t even say hello and…you hung up on me but okay, I get it you’re driving.

We text some more and I say I’m free if you want to talk now, call me.  He says no. What matters the most is that we both know we’re real and that he doesn’t like talking on the phone. I reply,  I need to speak on the phone to see the vibe and make sure you’re not a Nigerian scammer or can put two words together.

He then video calls me again, I say hello he hangs up. Wtf?? I say why would you video call me, not once but twice and then not even say hello? That’s weird. He goes off telling me I have a trust issue. No, sorry dude there’s definitely something wrong with you, not me here.

I don’t get it. What’s up with these men? What in society made them change so much from the previous generations? When did it become okay to demean women? Calling them bitches and hoes on videos and television? When did the memo come out saying hey, it’s okay to send an unsolicited dick pic to a woman? Seriously, what has happened?

Now I am not alone in this thinking, I have two groups I am in that all the women on there say these same things about the dating world. That’s besides all of my single girlfriends who know how hard it is in this dating pee pool.

Yes, times have changed and definitely not for the better.

So today my friends, keep the faith. I know some amazing men and I know that they are out there…Maybe lost on a horse, in the woods but they are out there.

We have to keep going and we will obviously have to kiss a lot of frogs to get our Prince. Unfortunately we will also have to sort through a lot of weirdos as well. Happy fishing! 

“Be the change you want to see”

@TreadmillTreats