14 Jun Blogging about online dating

Blogging about online dating

There are some days that I really feel like Carrie on Sex in the city. It’s because it seems like all I’m doing is writing about all of my dating escapades.

Thing is I’m not even that good of a writer to make this shit up, some of these escapades are just unreal.
But I always try to look on the bright side and I always try not to be so disgusted that I am turned off all together about dating and men in general, like many of my friends are.

Most of the time I just laugh about it. I tell my friends and we laugh about it. I have to tell you some of them and the things they do and say are funny as shit. I am forever shaking my head thinking Wtf?
What I do know is that every morning me and my girlfriends laugh about the things that happened to me while I’m on these dating sites.

Recently while I was talking to a guy that hit me up, I asked what he was looking for? At least he was honest and he said he wanted a friend with benefits, which I have to tell you that most men aren’t honest.
I politely told him “I wish you luck on your search but not that I think you’ll need it because there were plenty of women on here that would probably be open for the same.

I went on to say that I was looking for a long term relationship with my best friend. He then goes on to say “Are you sure you don’t want to try until you find somebody?”
I’m thinking Dude did you just hear what I said? But instead I try to be nice and say “No thanks”
He then said “Well, you’ve never been with me”

I said “Yeah, you’re the best right?”

He say “I don’t know if I’m the best but I’m damn good”

To that I replied “Yeah, they all say that”

He keeps going by saying “Are you sure?”

I say “Look, I have a friend with benefits if I wanted that and at least I know that he has a proven and amazing track record”

He says to me “Well do you know anybody else?”

At this point I start laughing, this Mfer is really reaching here.
I replied “Are you kidding me? Do I look like a pimp?
I would suggest Tinder”

I’ll tell you the next day me and my friends were dying…
Do I know anyone? Oh my I can’t make this shit up.
Here’s the thing, at least on these websites I get ideas about my next blog.
And I get a good laugh with my girlfriend every morning so it’s not all a waste of time.

Now I know some women are so serious about the dating sites and they get so upset and then get mad and say all men are dogs.
Not me, I laugh, I write about, and I just look at it as it is, what it is. I am always telling you it’s all about how you look at things. You get to choose, you get to get mad or laugh it off, it’s a choice.

So today my friends remember life is too short, don’t get mad. Laugh it off, know that for every dog out there, there is a good man looking for a good woman. This is what it is, on the online dating world nowadays and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better. So choose to keep being positive, keep laughing and as for me I’ll keep writing about it.

“Be the change you want to see”
@TreadmillTreats