19 Oct When you push a woken past the point of no return

When you push a good women past the point of no return 

It’s amazing what we as women will put up with. We will forgive, make excuses, we will try and try anything  to make things right with the man we love.

Over and over, nights of crying, days of agonizing, bottles of wine with our girlfriends trying to figure out what we can do to fix it.

We will put you on a pedestal, believing you are God’s gift to the world. We build you up and be your biggest cheerleader. 

Hell, my ex brother-in-law used to say all the time that I blew so much smoke up his brother’s ass, that he should be a Macy’s parade float.

I stood behind him, no matter what, even to the extreme of taking our life savings to buy snakes to breed while I was 7 months pregnant with our first child. But I believed in him, I trusted him, and I would have done anything for that man. That is the type of woman I am and so are many of my women friends.

Yes, we are your ride or die women, who will do anything for you…until…

Until you stop trying, until you hurt us time and time again. Until you lie and cheat. Until you don’t show us how much we mean to you or treat us like an afterthought. Then eventually we just stop caring. Our hearts start to close down, and every hurt you cause shuts it down a little more. Every bad word, every time you curse at us, or treat us badly, it closes more and more until one day we wake up and our hearts are shut down completely.

We might still physically be in the relationship but mentally we have already checked out. We are just waiting, maybe we are still hoping that it will change or just waiting for that last straw that will break the camel’s back.

Once you push a woman to that point, she is finished with you, she has learned her lessons and is moving on. I hear a lot of men who are married for years and then their wives ask for a divorce say “I never saw it coming…she just left” 

No, there were plenty of signs, you just chose to ignore them. Believe me I can guarantee she spoke to you, she cried herself to sleep, and she pulled away little by little but only because you didn’t put her first.

It was because you gave her a reason to walk away.

No one walks away from a good relationship, it takes work just like on your job, and it takes work from both of you. One person cannot hold it together alone.

Look, I’m big on romance, I love to have candles when he comes home, a home cooked meal. I put on soft music, give him a back rub after a rough day, I wear sexy nighties, and I send him love notes. I want my man to know how much he means to me, how lucky I am to have found him.

I am constantly building him up, telling him how proud I am of him, and that he can do anything he sets his mind to. We as a team, together, we can take on the world. Trust and believe, I am his ride or die chick. 

But this can’t be one sided, I am doing my work, so you need to be doing yours.

Men need to show their women that they are thinking of her. A quick text that says “I miss you…you’re on my mind” will go a long way and you can’t imagine how important that is to her.

Call her or ask her when she gets home, how her clients went, or how her work is, not just general crap, be specific about things she spoke to you about. 

Bring flowers just because… leave a sticky note on the bathroom mirror when she wakes up, plan dates for her. If a client falls off and you have some free time, call her and tell her you would love to see her.

Make her feel special and important in your life.

Step up or believe me she will step out.

So today my friends remember, if you do these things, you will have a woman’s heart forever.

If not, trust me she will lock down her heart faster than a maximum security prison. Don’t make the mistake of pushing a good woman past the point of no return.

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