08 Feb Never judge a book by its cover
Never judge a book by its cover.
This is such a true saying because as I watched Pamela Anderson’s new documentary on Netflix, I realized that I was one of those people that judged a book by its cover. Maybe because no one knows what’s really going on inside someone’s head or in their life unless they live it, they can only judge.
I should know this better than anyone else. When I grew up I was a tomboy and only had guy friends. Because of that everyone assumed I was sleeping with my guy friends and called me a whore. But in reality, I was dating my high school sweetheart from the age of 13 until I was 19. We didn’t sleep together until my 18th birthday. Yet everyone just believed what they wanted to believe or judged me on what they saw on the outside not knowing who I was on the inside.
This is definitely true about Pamela Anderson and her life. I had no idea the way she grew up, that she was raped and abused as a child or hat her father was an alcoholic and beat her mother.
What the world saw was this playboy model who posed naked or ran down the beach in a bathing suit. Or the woman who married a rock and roll star and had a crazy relationship with him. We didn’t know the backstory or how much she loved Tommy Lee, that this was her one true love.
When the sex tapes were stolen from their home and later came out people laughed. Who cares, it’s not like she didn’t pose naked already, many people said.
Yet they turned down 5 million dollars for the rights to the tapes. We didn’t know about or care about how invasive it was for somebody to break into their home to steal their private videos of their lives and put it out there for the whole world to see.
Look at it from another way, if someone broke into your home and stole your private video tapes of you and your spouse making love, would you want that all over the internet? And then to have someone making millions of dollars off of you? No, you wouldn’t, nobody would. But because it was her we thought who cares.
The stress of the trial wore on her and her unborn child so they dropped the suit. Unfortunately, the stress was too much on their marriage and when Tommy Lee became physical with her Pamela left him. She was not going to put up with what she watched her mother go through.
She has reinvented herself once again by doing Broadway and learning to love herself in her fifties…bravo!
So today my friends, this shows me how tough she is. After all, she’s been through she still believes in love, in forgiveness, she has the strength to go on and keep looking forward. She can laugh at herself even when others are laughing at her.
She has learned lessons the hard way and is never given credit for it.
She is definitely not letting the cover judge who she is.
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