10 Feb Why would you gossip about others?
Why would you gossip about others?
I remember going to a party and it was amazing how some people like to gossip about others. The first thing they did was start whispering about this one and that one but I don’t get it.
We are at a point in our lives where we should be adult enough to let go of all the petty bullshit and be happy for others’ successes and not their failures.
I am not jealous of anyone as I know that looks can be deceiving. Yes, that friend who has those Lou Boutin shoes or the Gucci purse looks good on the outside but inside she is dying and unhappy. Your friend with a big house and fancy car, can’t sleep at night because they are drowning in debt. The friend who thinks they are better than everyone else and puts others down is really insecure about themselves and is trying to take the focus off of their own shortcomings.
I want to know the good stuff. Like if they decided to change their lives, or if they got a promotion, a new house, or if someone gifted them with a new car. That is what I want to talk about, the positive things not the negative ones.
I focus on all the good around me, I don’t think there is nothing missing, nothing lacking or nothing broken in my life. I am full and I want to stay in that space. For me gossip is a waste of time just like watching the news, all you hear is bad things.
I don’t want to know the bad, tell me good news, uplift me, and give me hope for a better tomorrow. Yes, there is all of that in this world yet so many people just focus on the bad, or the sensational because we have become a world of gossipmongers. Building someone up just to tear them down.
So today my friends, I am here to let you know that it’s a choice. I tell you that every day, the choice is yours. You can go around and talk about people to try to make yourself feel better about your situation or you can rejoice in others’ good fortune and be truly happy for their lives.
I will leave you with this. I remember when a friend had someone give her a car as hers just died. She was a single mom on a fixed income and I knew how hard it’s been on her.
When she told me I literally cried because I was as happy for her as if it happened to me.
That is where we should all strive to be, to be happy for others, not jealous or mean-spirited or gossiping about them.
Be grateful for the space you’re in right now…
Change your thoughts…change the world.
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