02 Mar Growth and mourning

Growth and mourning

Everyone talks about the beauty of growth. Yet the world shies away from the uncomfortable truth of mourning one’s past self, relationships, routines, and conditions.
No, Some things will never be the same but that is the blessing.

Most people don’t see the blessings, as they are too stuck in the pain. Many don’t mourn the person they used to be or own their own shit about what they did. They push down their feelings and pretend everything is good.
But if we don’t look for the lessons we will never grow.
Life is not about what is happening to us but for us. But only if we look at it that way.

So many times we blame the world or blame others and take no responsibility for our actions or choices. We go from one relationship to another never unpacking our crap. We blame the next person for the actions of the one before. We take no responsibility because we are so hurt and broken.

So today my friends remember we need to mourn what was lost. Whether it may be the loss of a loved one, a relationship, or just who you used to be. We need to look for the lessons, look for the blessings because pain is growth, and yes, sometimes pain is even the blessing but only if you choose to be the change you want to see.
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