05 Aug There are good guys out there

There are good men out there

This is a touchy subject with a lot of women out here nowadays. So many have been hurt, have been cheated on, lied to and the dating pool definitely seems like it has a lot of pee in it. The only fish out here are catfish and trust me they definitely are not as good as the real ones. 

Here’s my thing, I don’t need a man to complete me, I am complete. I don’t need a man to make me happy, I am happy with myself and my life but I would like to have someone to share my life with.

With all of my dating horror stories, well okay they are not all bad, just most of them! I always try to look at the bright side, at least I get good stories to write about from them. But honestly, I truly know there are good men out there.

I was blessed enough to have 3 wonderful men in my life growing up, my dad, my step dad and an incredible family friend named Sam. These 3 men were the best men I’ve ever met, they are what real men should be. The men today need to have taken lessons from these 3 men.

It’s not like I don’t know what a good man looks like. I have also picked quite a few really good men in my life, it just didn’t work out for one reason or another but they are still in my life because they are such incredible men. I have some great male friends, single dads, that are hard working, and willing to help when you’re in a bind. Kind and caring men who I am proud to call my friends.

But I have also picked some winners, the ones that left you shaking your head asking yourself “What was I thinking?” 

But I will not lump all men together and say all men are bad as I hear so many women say all the time. To me that would be like saying all women are bitches and I know for a fact that is not true. I have the most incredible group of women friends that are kind and sweet, caring and loving, and any man would be blessed to have them. 

So no, I will not lump them all together even if sometimes it seems like they are all block heads looking for only one thing. That so many of my dates had no manners or filters on their tongues. What I have realized is that a good man is hard to find and one day I know I will find my King. And they say if you kiss enough frogs….

So today my friends,  remember there are good people out there, don’t let the bad ones spoil your search and say all of them are no good. Keep an open mind, keep throwing back the bad ones and keep looking for that diamond in the rough. They are out there…you know how I know?  Because I am a good one, you are a good one…we are out there that means they are out there as well.

“Be the change you want to see”

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